Comments on: The Parenting Hall of Shame: Now Accepting Members

By: Joe

Joe — Wed, 23 Jan 2008 21:11:26 +0000

Im a single dad, who works from home so I spend a lot of time with my 5 y.o. son. As challenging as it is, I wouldnt be able to do it without the infamous “time out” strategy and of course taking his favorite things to do, away from him is a big negotiation tool when it comes to his mannerisims. I’ve involved him in many outside activities, that he loves i.e. soccer, gymnastics, swimming, surfing, kayaking etc.. ALL of which are on the chopping block at anytime, when it comes to his behavior. Dont get me wrong, Im not perfect, but I have found these tactics much more effective discilinary tactic than hitting. It actually works, if it didnt I guess I would try something else…

By: D

Tue, 07 Aug 2007 20:56:26 +0000

This is a refreshing perspective that I wish more women would discuss openly. I think too often we strive for perfection – at home, at work, in our relationships . We don’t give ourselves “permission” to be imperfect, to make mistakes, to be what we are: human. I really appreciate finding an expert who is this honest and real. Thanks for helping me feel a little less alone!

By: Roger

Roger — Mon, 23 Jul 2007 17:29:51 +0000

Love this. Perfect and normalizing!

By: Gina Griswold

Gina Griswold — Fri, 13 Jul 2007 04:33:39 +0000

I am a FIRM believer in what I just read. When I made that somewhat stupid comment about being a guilt free parent (when we were at Ruby’s), this is kinda what I meant. I do feel guilty when I lose control, but what helps is when i relieve my heart through prayer and confession…to other normal women like myself. This is what helps ease the guilt. I also realize that no matter what I do or don’t do as a parent, my kids will have some sort of issues to work through in their adult life that pertain to me. I mean don’t we all have something we wish we could have changed about our upbringing? Even if we could change that one thing, it would only lead to an issue of another kind. I’m rambling…all to say that realizing that I will never be a perfect parent helps ease the guilt also!
So, I have to confess that I’m a little sheepish to confess my ugly moments to my “parenting expert” friend. So, next time we talk…you go first!